House wife

I am 40 bi male living alone lately quite frequently in last several months I fantasize my self being a house wife like I am just wearing apron standing in kitchen cooking for a my husband or boyfriend In my dreams or fantasy I can not make up his face but from his voice and my deminur it looks like I am serving him as sort of his slave or obidiant wife and I want to serve him more

When I do get erotic dreams it always the same either I am on all fours and he is having his way or he has lifted me in air and I hanging by his neck

Is this normal what to do please help